If you keep asking why do I lose myself in relationships, it usually means closeness may be pulling your identity, boundaries, and priorities so close to the relationship that your separate self becomes harder to feel. Identity loss relationship often feels less like one moment and more like a repeated inner position.
Emotional merging often means the bond is carrying too much of your direction, worth, or emotional regulation, which can make separation from the relationship feel unsettling.
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