If you keep asking why do I keep hoping they will change, it usually means hope may still be protecting the relationship's future version even while the present version keeps repeating the same harm. Relationship optimism bias often feels less like one moment and more like a repeated inner position.
Toxic relationship persistence often lasts because attachment keeps investing in who the person could become rather than what the dynamic keeps showing now.
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