If you keep asking why do I feel unsafe when someone gets close, it usually means emotional closeness may be getting interpreted as risk quickly enough that safety rises with distance rather than with connection. Intimacy fear often feels less like one moment and more like a repeated inner position.
Vulnerability anxiety often means part of you wants closeness while another part is still preparing for what closeness might cost.
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