If you keep asking why do I feel bad when someone is upset with me, it usually means someone else's upset may quickly turn into self-blame, urgency, or the feeling that you now need to repair the whole emotional field. Emotional guilt psychology often feels less like one moment and more like a repeated inner position.
Approval anxiety often makes other people's discomfort feel like a direct reflection on your goodness rather than one part of relationship reality.
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