If you keep asking why do I become who others need me to be, it usually means your identity may be getting shaped in real time by other people's needs strongly enough that your own center becomes harder to feel. Identity adaptation often feels less like one moment and more like a repeated inner position.
Social conformity can become identity adaptation when fitting the role matters more than staying connected to yourself.
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