If you keep asking why do I avoid emotional closeness, it usually means deep emotional contact may be feeling too exposing, so distance starts to feel easier than being fully known. Intimacy avoidance often feels less like one moment and more like a repeated inner position.
Emotional distancing often reflects self-protection more than indifference, which is why you can want closeness and still keep moving away from it.
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